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n should arry when they are young, and won should arry when they are young this has been an unchangg prciple sce ancient tis although it is now advocated to chan ctos and enga new weddgs, pared to the 1960s and 1970s, it has bee ore xurio and the siple ctos of people no lonr exist i a fro zhuzhou, hunan let talk about the weddg ctos zhuzhou isitg and engagg atchaker es to propose arria when n and won reach the a of arria, their parents first fd a atchaker when the atchaker disvers that there is one of appropriate a the faily, they first unicate with their parents and then schedule a date to arran a bld date location, ually a arket pce on the day of the arket, both the an and the woan go to the designated location, take a look at each other, say a few words, and show their cheerful pernality on the spot nerally, they will return ho and talk to the atchaker after agreeg, the an will choose a date for engant (we call it dgshi there) there is al a type that is favored by oneself or by parents, such as s if they are reted, parents will entrt an acatance to act as a atchaker the 1960s and 1970s, any s got arried rural areas, and the third representative of siblgs ttg arried was ore this is called \"new retives ttg arried with old retives\", which is even ore joyful, but this kd of close retives ttg arried is still not good the engant reires four kds of gifts, that is, a few pieces of cloth decent failies will e dacron and dacron fabrics, nylon cks, and those with poor enoic nditions will e khaki cloth and tton cks this way, even if the engant is suessful, the an can go to the woan's ho and send gifts to the woan's ho for the new year holiday nerally, the four kds of gifts are the sa, naly, the begng of sur festival, the dragon boat festival, the id-autun festival and the sprg festival at, eggs, noodles and a piece of fabric, after a year or o, when both parties have no objections, the woan tells the atchaker that they can cut the shoe saple (that is, the an tells the woan the size of the shoes worn by his faily) the an gives the woan oney for cuttg the saple, which was only a few tens of yuan at that ti the woan needs to ake a pair of shoes for each ber of the an's faily and atch the with hand-ebroidered les preparation before and after arria a necessary dowry for won before arria, the an gives the woan oney to buy a dowry dependg on the faily's enoic nditions, he can give the woan three to five thoand yuan at once, and regardless of how uch oney she receives fro the an, these thgs t be allocated one r wardrobe or bation cabet, one table, four chairs, one b table, one food cabet, one washbas rack, o r wooden cases, one sall wooden case or leather case (siir to the rr travel case at present), o hot water bottles, cups and toothbrhes, au pots for boilg water, pressure oker and other daily necessities, four ilts and a pair of pillows those with good faily nditions will be eipped with a n's bicycle, a seg ache, a bck and white tv set, an electric fan, etc fact, no atter how uch oney the an gives the woan, the woan's parents basically don't e uch of the oney, and they return it to their daughter to ake ntaer oney what the an t prepare addition to givg the woan three or five thoand yuan, the an only needs to prepare one or o new hoes and doesn't care about anythg else if the an's faily is poor and there is no dowry for the woan, the woan will al brg all the daily necessities on the day before arria, the an t pay a gift to the woan the gifts cde: half or one pig, chicken, clothes or fabrics, shoes and cks of the woan's parents, brothers and sisters all thgs should be put pce a big rack should be ed to carry the to the woan, that the woan's onlookers can know what's g at a gnce if the an's faily ndition is not good, he will borrow thg to put on it to save face, becae all the thgs that went through the cereony, except for the food, returned to the an the next day the woan should prepare as follows put red packets the ilt, ually o packets, each of which is 40 cents for the bed aker the big wooden box is full of fruit, peanuts, sweet potato chips, eggs, candy biscuits, and clothes, shoes and cks when you see the an's parents, brothers and sisters the an's side addition, the parents al need to give the daughter box oney (hundreds to thoands dependg on the nditions) becae after arryg the an, the other--w will open the box the next day, and people the vil will e around to see the excitent, the purpose is to see if the woan has given enough oney for the ntaer on the day before arria, the woan will notify the an how any people will e to lift thgs the next day nerally, eight or ore n are reired becae the woan needs to carry everythg to the an, and the an's roo only needs to be prepared with an epty hoe the next orng, a weddg procession was arrand for the an to go to the woan's hoe to wele her the n had to go, cdg the groo, o brides (won), five to six gongs and balt teas, and people carryg thgs they all went to the woan's hoe to have breakfast tother, blog and pyg after dner, the woan sent off the weddg, with one an and o won seeg off the bride the procession carryg thgs took a step first, and then the groo and bride followed with ubrels regardless of the weather, each pern had an ubrel, blog and beatg all the way to the an for nch after dner, the weddg scene is al the ost lively scene durg arria the purpose is to help the groo and bride eliate the feelg of shyness vario progras try to ake their body and sk ntact, such as outh to outh eatg dates, o people lightg firecrackers, kittens fishg, and ash pickg the ore tricks, the better no atter how big or sall, they can ake as uch noise as they want after the 1980s, the habit of akg weddg scenes gradually chand to watchg ovies, videos, and sgg ncsion: arria that era was the siplest, especially for office workers and workers who ate the national food, let alone worry about anythg they had free love, and when they got arried, their unit had a share of the hoe the unit leaders would pernally hold the weddg for the young uple, and after arria, the young uple slowly ade furniture unlike now, hoes t be bought by theselves, and people would bee property sves for a lifeti that era was truly cialist! ter, with the developnt of ciety and the iprovent of aterial livg standards, betrothal gifts erd, startg with three ajor ites: bicycles, watches, and seg aches ter, it developed to four ajor ites, five ajor ites, and on, until now, i won't say uch about it